The Cool Girl Doesn’t Exist And Here’s Why

cool girl doesn't exist

Oh, the “cool girl”. We all know that one girl who is capable of pounding back beers, maintains that chill factor, is a size 2 and gorgeous. Well that’s at least how the writers in Hollywood imagine her to be.

You see, the cool girl doesn’t exist. It isn’t a real person but a persona invented primarily by guys who wish they could find a girl like this to date in real life. The effects though, is entirely damaging to women as a whole.

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Five Great Career Choices for Caring People

Five Great Career Choices for Caring People

People say that there’s a career for every personality, and you should always choose a calling that represents your inner values and personal traits. A friend recently turned to me and said, ” I don’t think you are tapping into your fullest potential and using all your skill sets”. I was baffled. It had been on my mind lately, different ways I could hone in on my caring nature and my ability to help others. It made think of the different opportunities and careers that are out there for that distinct personality trait. Here are a few that popped up. Keep reading and let me know which one you would choose!

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Why We Don’t Realize We’re Self Sabotaging

Why We Don't Realize When We're Self Sabotaging Tips To Stop Self Sabotage

Today is a big topic that affects the majority of the population. Self-sabotage or self sabotaging, is the act of ruining or hurting our chances of obtaining something we long for. It could be a career goal, a relationship, personal health goal, or even the chance of daily happiness.

Often times, we don’t realize we are self sabotaging. The reason being is, it is so instinctive that it has become the norm of living. To demonstrate and explain more, I’ll use my own personal experiences when it comes to self sabotage, because after all, I was once a queen at it.

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Half Way Point, Time To Reflect

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Thank you Not Jess Fashion for this awesome post about reflecting and the blog tips you enclosed. After reading, I realized holy cow, we are at the half way point. 6 months have past since January 1st when all those feelings of a fresh start and anything is possible was overwhelming. But guess what, anything is still possible! This is a good time to sit down and take inventory of what is happening, what has happened, and where you want to go. Here is how!

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This Is Why I keep Moving

why i keep moving

“Too often, it’s easy to get stuck in a rut, doing the same thing the same way over and over every day. But if we are going to live at our absolute best, we should constantly be growing and sharpening our skills. We should strive to learn and grow every single day because when you stop learning, you stop growing. When you stop growing, you stop living.

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My Last Two Months

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I have been living in New York City for nearly 11 years now, and I think I finally understand the meaning of the phrase, In a New York Minute….”

My last two months have been a whirlwind. Between packing up my entire beloved apartment, to finishing work assignments, my brain sometimes has a hard time comprehending what’s happening. For instance, I’ll be halfway through an email when I start  thinking “Did I pack the coffee machine?”. Disoriented is a real thing!

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There Are No Shortcuts To Success

There Are No Shortcuts To Success

One of the greatest things that came from graduating college into a recession is it forced many of us to pursue our creative dreams from the get go. There weren’t many jobs, so we created our own. What I’ve seen along the way though are a lot of entrepreneurs who want success and want to take short cuts to get there. If there is one thing that I’ve learned in the last 6 years is that, there are no shortcuts to success.

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Everything’s Changing! How Do You Cope With Fear Amidst the Change

How Do You Cope With Fear Amidst the Change

Hi my loves! I wanted to take a quick minute to write about what’s happening in my personal life. I think it is something many can relate to, which is the scariness of change. They say “The only thing that is constant is change.”

I am sitting amongst piles of books and electronics and brown boxes as I type this article. I had no idea I would be moving so quickly, or that I would be setting off for an insane adventure so soon into the new year. But that is exactly what is happening. This time around, though, I am not fighting the Universe.

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